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    March 30

    孤独是永恒的

    大家都好像在传播着一种感觉——孤独。

    我生于1980年,26年来,我和许多年纪相仿的人们一起独自长大,孤独和我们如影随行。

    特殊的年代,特殊的一代人,我们孤独因为我们必须为国家日后的强大作出牺牲,于是我们成了第一代没有兄弟姐妹的祖国接班人。抑或换个角度:我们是家族中幸运的一个,毕竟我们能够这样孤独的长大。

    一代又一代的孩子继续着我们孤独的命运,而这种孤独的思潮也开始在社会中蔓延、流行。

    我们与自己玩耍、与自己办家家、与自己为友、与自己为敌。

    同学是我们童年记忆中不可或缺的亲情元素,然而,就如我的题目,孤独是永恒的,每当我们毕业,大家各奔前程,孤独便侵蚀而来,每一次升学,每一次更换学校,孤独都微笑着欢迎我们的回归,直到我们终于离开了求学生涯对于我们的庇护,进入社会。

    孤独终于得到了我们。

    继续成长,我们选择和另一个人结束这段孤独,可是幸运的人毕竟是少数,很多人在尝试之后仍然发现,孤独固然可怕,与不合适的人一起度过孤独更可怕,于是他们选择重新回到一个人的世界,独自地抵御着。

    幸运的人呢?他们生育儿女,却仍然在传递着孤独,直到儿女长大,独自飞翔,伴侣衰老,终于湮灭,人生又重回孤独。他们真的幸运吗?

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